Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Department dinner @ Swissotel!

Had a yummy buffet dinner tonight! So full now and listening to the comparisons of quotations... Why am I not paying attention? Too many details, listen until blur... Anyway, but I love the 3D layout of the house! I tell you, if we end up signing contract with them, I'm so gonna love the house!

Back to dinner, took pictures of what I had... Yummy lor! But sadly, I didn't eat as much as I used to be able to. :( Anyway, just some pictures to show...






















Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Photos...

The wonders of technology! I can actually blog on my phone while lying on the bed! Going to zzz soon... Just testing this BlogPress that I just downloaded. Seems easy enough to blog! Plus adding of pictures is a breeze as compared to blogging using my laptop! But then again maybe because I haven't tried posting pictures via my blog on my laptop... :p

Anyway, just to share some of my fav photos!





























































- ah phia signing off...

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

House Keys!

Finally got our keys to our house and now busy trying to get the best quotation for renovating our love nest! I think it's cute how hubby terms it as that! Lol.

Well I'm quite passive about this whole renovation. I hope he doesn't think that I'm not interested. Let's put it this way; I don't really care much about how he intends to renovate because I've seen his works and it suits me ok. Of course I did give my 2 cents worth if there's something in particular that I don't like. I just have zero design sense. My opinions will just be so off; I'll probably mix Oriental with say Modern and in a weird way. So I'm just letting him have full rein of the house design and all. When the house is completed, that's where I come in with all the small decorative stuff for the house! Lol...

As of now, I really won't be of much help, only telling him what I like and see if he can incorporate it in the house layout. I guess my nonchalance is also due to the fact that basically my whole life used to be mapped out by my dad. So I don't have much opinions independently. -_-

So anyway, am on my last day of MC. Was down with bad bout of flu and cough that for once in a long time, I was given 2 days of MC. I kind of miss work. At least now not coughing as badly. And the endless sneezing has stopped so far. -_-

Actually I'm quite excited to see the end product of the house! I just know it's gonna be awesome and damned to anyone else who thinks otherwise! Haha... I'm just so proud of hubby for handling this whole phase on his own. From researching, designing, planning, getting quotation, etc. It's really hard work and I'm just so glad he didn't force me to partake in this, though I should lah. But too many cooks spoil the broth... If I give too many opinions, it's either I get annoyed when he rejects them (even if for the right reasons), or he'll get more frustrated with my useless ideas or impractical plans, or we'll just argue and fight trying to compromise. Think like this is better. He does what he does best, I do what I do best. I'll do stuff like handling paperwork, reading through contracts, etc. He'll do all the hands-on things like design, liaising with contractors etc. :p

Ok, going to shower now... Till the next time!

Sunday, February 21, 2010

CNY and a Fucked Up Man!

CNY was great! Had a good time at his hometown with him and his family... Dunno why but I feel so much at ease when I'm with his family than mine. Quite bad right. Haha.

Though lots of things happen. Dunno why but I damn suay lah. First I got drunk and fell when I leaned against the motorbike. Scrapped my elbow. -_- Got back home to puke my guts out and making a mess which his poor daisou had to help clean up after me. Second, lost money at mahjong la. Haha... But is ok! Not alot and in ringgit, so just take it as paying for entertainment lor! Third, having a fight with hubby. Well mostly my fault la. I PMS-ing lor. Lastly, having rashes there and when back. Think weather too hot liao.

Anyway took MC on Friday cos of rashes. Felt bad cos I keep thinking of work. All the emails and work when I go back to work tomorrow. Sigh...

But I mainly wanna complain about that idiot bro-in-law of his!! Not Desmond nor his eldest sis's husband la. They are like Mr Nice Guy. But the one that he's living with now is a different matter. He's easily one of the worst man on earth lor! I just have to vent out or I'll just have all these anger inside me!

It's not just me who has issues with him. EVERYONE has issues with him. He seriously is going to get it from us one of these days. Just dunno by who. Haha! But seriously lor. If everyone is bitching about him, there's really something not right with this fella.

He hits his daughters like nobody's business. Nothing wrong with disciplining kids right? But the way he does it is like sooooo wrong lor. How can you slap a Pri 3 or 4 girl in the face? You are a man leh. Your strength is not exactly little. It's really those fierce, tight slaps not those smacks ok. Sooner or later you are going to burst her eardrums slapping her like that. If he ever disciplines his kids like that in front of me, you can bet your arse that I'm not going to sit there and do nothing.

Then at his hometown, he shouted at his nephew for throwing stones at somebody else's car. HELLO! Number 1, that is not your kid. You have no right to discipline him. Secondly, you have even no bloody right to still have that murderous glare at him even while walking away! Thirdly, it is YOUR own son who did the deed not your nephew! Bloody hell. I was soooo pissed off esp when I see the poor nephew tearing after I hurriedly pull him to the back of the house to sayang him.

And at his hometown, the same stupid man pissed off sooo many people. The first was when he just switched channel while the whole clan was watching tv. No asking of permission, no apologies, NOTHING! As if he has the right to do so! Hello, this is not your bloody house. Second, this is not your tv. It is Desmond who paid for it. Thirdly, everyone is watching the tv. Don't you have any manners nor sense of courtesy to at least ask if can switch channel?

The second was when he was soooo rude and farted in hubby's bro's face! No apologies neither! Cos the bro was sitting on the floor or sth, and that stupid man who was sitting on the sofa just lifted his butt, farted and never say a word! And he did that not once but TWICE! What the hell!! At least apologize la! So hard to say sorry meh???

The third was that night all of us got drunk. I was busy puking in the outside toilet and half sleeping inside. Hubby was waiting for me until he fell asleep in the small drain outside the toilet. That stupid man came to the back dunno do what, saw him sleeping there and went to the living room and told daisou "they intend to sleep outside ar." And daisou came to check on us. Then she turned around wanting to ask him for help to pick hubby up, but the stupid man had gone back to the room to sleep! What the hell lor!! Where got people like that one??? Luckily hubby still can get up when daisou tried to wake him up lor! But this stupid man is really one bloody kind!

Another thing that I learnt from daisou also infuriated me lor. Her son was staying with this stupid man since he came to Singapore to study. And his bro had a history of gambling and etc. And the latest 9pm drama serial talked about this husband who lost money in his business ventures and escaped reality by hiding in the room. While this stupid man and hubby's man were watching this show and that particular scene, this stupid man actually called his nephew out from the room where he was studying and said things like see lah, same like your father right and asked where his father hide to during that time. Wah lao eh. How can you attack a kid like that! He's here without his own family, defenceless and innocent. How would you like it if I ask your kids about you raking up huge credit card bills and your wife having to help you clear your debt? Never mind, then the poor boy just answer "don't know, you want to know ask my mother". Wah, and his sis can scold him saying how can he be rude and talk back when his uncle is just asking him something! What the hell lor! And his sis can later go back to complain to their mother that her grandson is rude, talking back to her husband! Wah kao! The pot calling the kettle black!!!!!!

The latest issue with him is regarding the aircon installation at the hometown. It came up because it was so hot there and since only the first room had aircon, everyone thought it will be a good idea to install aircon in all the other rooms and living room. So hubby's bro, Desmond and hubby decided to chip in for this. So out of courtesy his youngest sis asked the second sis if she wants to chip in, since they will also benefit from it. Though everyone expected that her husband will not be in favour of it. Initially she said ok, then the stupid man or his wife la, called daisou and then the parents and make a huge fuss. End up he replied to both hubby's youngest sis and husband that "after much consideration, we are not supportive of this unreasonable, impractical and stubborn plan". Yup, that is what he wrote!! What the hell right!!! Just a simple no we will not chip in will suffice. Do you need to be so rude? Obnoxious idiot stupid man! Then bloody hell you don't use the aircon when you go back!

Honestly, this type of man really gets on my nerves. I can't wait for the day hubby moves out of there and I can stop greeting him jiefu. Hell. Such people do not deserve any respect at all! Certainly not from me! And then when hubby moves out, he dare step on my tail, he better watch out. I will not tolerate any nonsense from him. Mark my words.

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Emo-ing Time

Don't know why, but have been quite emo these days! Nope I'm not pregnant! My period's about to be over! (too much info right?hahaha)

Well, went to Malaysia again last weekend. This time to visit my grandparents, because well, the dowager had gave the instructions for all of us to go back. And well, truth be told I haven't been back to visit them for at least a year...

Well, hard to lah. When my parents go back to Malaysia, it's either I have something on or his has something on and I rather accompany him. We haven't got our own car either, so it's abit inconvenient. And well, if I had to choose between visiting his side and my side, I'll choose his any time.

But seeing kong kong so old now, and having a stroke sometime back, I can't help but wonder... Where has time gone? What have I done or achieved in life? Why haven't I done more to be more active in my grandparents' lives? In my parents' lives? Why aren't I more sociable and caring towards my family?

Sometimes I feel like I have so much regrets in life and yet I don't do anything about it. Perhaps I don't know how. Perhaps I feel it's too late. How to forge a better relationship with my parents and grandparents? I don't know how to speak dialect with the latter, so I can't communicate much with them. And we almost never talk, so I don't know what to say to them. With my parents, well, let's just say we don't communicate as much due to my younger days experiences. We are just not as close as I'd hoped. You know, like how some parents are actually friends with their kids? I want that kind of relationship, but that has been such far off since young. And it's too late now to try and salvage, much less cultivate such a relationship. But I do love my daddy so so much. I'll never forget how much he used to love me and showing it. Not that he doesn't now... But I missed those days when i'm just his little girl and he being my hero. I just want to be his little girl again. But all these are words that won't come out. What comes out are usually curt replies when I'm not in the mood, talking back when I feel that he's being naggy, nonchalant
replies when I'm busy doing mundane stuff, etc. I guess I'm just brought up this way, not expressive towards family.

Well, Monday was Ivory's wedding dinner. Somehow I just feel like crying. Thinking of how we used to be so close at my ex-company. And now finally she's married! Well, by right she was long married lah. Just that she had her wedding dinner like, half a year later? I don't know. Just felt so touched and glad to be at her wedding dinner. I wish them both a blissful marriage and to stay true and loving till the end of time!

Well, I hope this emo phase will blow over soon! I hate feeling so emo! Ok, it's late now, going to sleep and I hope my neck and throat will feel better before this weekend!

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Happy 2010!

Ok ok, quite belated I know. Been busy - went to Hong Kong from 29 Dec 09 - 9 Jan 10, went to his hometown on 9 Jan 10, back to work on 11 Jan 10. So have been busy at work from 11 Jan till now. Haha... But am loving my work! =) Because seems like everything is going smoother so far...

Anyway, I miss Hong Kong! I miss the cold weather (even though I caught the flu buy on the 4th day? -_-), dim sum, food, the lifestyle, not working and just enjoying myself, his sis's family especially the kids! Haha... Oh, and I definitely miss the fashion there! And the toys! But I'm quite lazy and tired to blog about the trip, so just see my hubby's pictures! (A picture is worth a thousand words!) He also did try blogging daily, kudos to him! I was so tired by the time I got back, and all I wanted to do was stone. LOL. But I think he was impressed that I can walk so much without any complaints! Haha... Usually I'd have complained, want to take cab, want to sit and rest, want to go home.Yah lah, typical spoilt brat. But I guess the weather played a part. It's so cold and cooling, hard to get annoyed. =p Here, it's so hot, which makes me hot-tempered, plus if I'm tired, my temper gets worser, and plus if I'm sick, that's it, I'm staying home! Ok, anyway, want to know more about my HK trip just see Aaron's blog.

After we landed in Singapore, we headed over to his sister's place at Punggol, unpack some stuff, rush back to our houses to put other food stuff and the luggages. Then off we went, back to his hometown. Only got back on Sunday night (more like 2 plus in the morning!).

Went back to work and saw 199 emails (none of it is spam mail!). Almost fainted. Hahaha... So started clearing my mails, do my work... Looking forward to the weekend so I can sleep late!

Hmmm, nothing much liao. *goes off to watch TV!*

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Woohoo!

Haven't been updating this for what? *checks* A month! Haha...

Work is going along fine. The lady that I'm taking over from will be leaving already. So I'm going to be ALL BY MYSELF! >_< Nah, I still got my manager and the lady is still around here at another department, so I'm still alright! Hopefully I just be more careful at work. -_-

Anyway, woohoo, so many exciting things happening! Until I'm quite tired actually... LOL! Not enough sleep and well, no more night shift, so cannot sleep until 10.30am! LOL. And plus, these few days went to work myself, so once I'm aboard the bus, I'll doze off until I reach my workplace. -_- Yeah. Hopefully I didn't snore! That will be quite ermm... embarrassing.

Ok, so what's all the hype about? Hahaha... Got my iPhone finally! =p After LOADS of waiting, I end up still getting it from Singtel. -_- To summarize, expensive phone, cheaper plan, but ok lah! =p Poor hubby has been hearing me drone on and on, nagging on the pros and cons of getting the iPhone from this telco, this plan, blah blah blah. And when I finally decided, it's another round of anxiety of whether I made the right choice or not, and so I go on and on and on ala Titanic song. -_- So yah, I think hubby deserves alot of praises for being able to tolerate me and my nonsense and my fickle mind! =p

So where was I? Oh yah, my iPhone! So my sis so kindly bought me a pretty Speck Candyshell casing as my birthday present despite being sick. Poor girl. And so after two days of holding it at home, I'm FINALLY using it, and trying to act damn pro with it lah. =x Downloaded a few really cute applications. Did lots of research before buying this phone ok! Already had a list of applications and games to download, and the casing that I need. =x Kiasu lah. Typical Singaporean leh...

So am bringing my new baby to HK end of this month! Gonna look for a nice pouch for it. Well, my sis and bro have been giving me an earful for wanting to add bulk to my phone, but well, I need lots of protection for it since it's gonna be in my huge bag with loads of rubbish in it! It's bound to be shaken, bumped and tossed about. It needs some anti-shock protection! LOL. So anyway, yah, coming to my next point, HK! Yeah! Can't wait to see his niece and enjoy my holiday! ^_^ And it's the cold season there! Can wear my beloved trench coat, IF I can still fit in it! =( Dang, I must start making a list of what to bring liao!

Ok lah, I'm so rambling on and lunch-time's almost over. So I'm off for a quick puff and back to work later! =p Ta for now!