CNY and a Fucked Up Man!

CNY was great! Had a good time at his hometown with him and his family... Dunno why but I feel so much at ease when I'm with his family than mine. Quite bad right. Haha.

Though lots of things happen. Dunno why but I damn suay lah. First I got drunk and fell when I leaned against the motorbike. Scrapped my elbow. -_- Got back home to puke my guts out and making a mess which his poor daisou had to help clean up after me. Second, lost money at mahjong la. Haha... But is ok! Not alot and in ringgit, so just take it as paying for entertainment lor! Third, having a fight with hubby. Well mostly my fault la. I PMS-ing lor. Lastly, having rashes there and when back. Think weather too hot liao.

Anyway took MC on Friday cos of rashes. Felt bad cos I keep thinking of work. All the emails and work when I go back to work tomorrow. Sigh...

But I mainly wanna complain about that idiot bro-in-law of his!! Not Desmond nor his eldest sis's husband la. They are like Mr Nice Guy. But the one that he's living with now is a different matter. He's easily one of the worst man on earth lor! I just have to vent out or I'll just have all these anger inside me!

It's not just me who has issues with him. EVERYONE has issues with him. He seriously is going to get it from us one of these days. Just dunno by who. Haha! But seriously lor. If everyone is bitching about him, there's really something not right with this fella.

He hits his daughters like nobody's business. Nothing wrong with disciplining kids right? But the way he does it is like sooooo wrong lor. How can you slap a Pri 3 or 4 girl in the face? You are a man leh. Your strength is not exactly little. It's really those fierce, tight slaps not those smacks ok. Sooner or later you are going to burst her eardrums slapping her like that. If he ever disciplines his kids like that in front of me, you can bet your arse that I'm not going to sit there and do nothing.

Then at his hometown, he shouted at his nephew for throwing stones at somebody else's car. HELLO! Number 1, that is not your kid. You have no right to discipline him. Secondly, you have even no bloody right to still have that murderous glare at him even while walking away! Thirdly, it is YOUR own son who did the deed not your nephew! Bloody hell. I was soooo pissed off esp when I see the poor nephew tearing after I hurriedly pull him to the back of the house to sayang him.

And at his hometown, the same stupid man pissed off sooo many people. The first was when he just switched channel while the whole clan was watching tv. No asking of permission, no apologies, NOTHING! As if he has the right to do so! Hello, this is not your bloody house. Second, this is not your tv. It is Desmond who paid for it. Thirdly, everyone is watching the tv. Don't you have any manners nor sense of courtesy to at least ask if can switch channel?

The second was when he was soooo rude and farted in hubby's bro's face! No apologies neither! Cos the bro was sitting on the floor or sth, and that stupid man who was sitting on the sofa just lifted his butt, farted and never say a word! And he did that not once but TWICE! What the hell!! At least apologize la! So hard to say sorry meh???

The third was that night all of us got drunk. I was busy puking in the outside toilet and half sleeping inside. Hubby was waiting for me until he fell asleep in the small drain outside the toilet. That stupid man came to the back dunno do what, saw him sleeping there and went to the living room and told daisou "they intend to sleep outside ar." And daisou came to check on us. Then she turned around wanting to ask him for help to pick hubby up, but the stupid man had gone back to the room to sleep! What the hell lor!! Where got people like that one??? Luckily hubby still can get up when daisou tried to wake him up lor! But this stupid man is really one bloody kind!

Another thing that I learnt from daisou also infuriated me lor. Her son was staying with this stupid man since he came to Singapore to study. And his bro had a history of gambling and etc. And the latest 9pm drama serial talked about this husband who lost money in his business ventures and escaped reality by hiding in the room. While this stupid man and hubby's man were watching this show and that particular scene, this stupid man actually called his nephew out from the room where he was studying and said things like see lah, same like your father right and asked where his father hide to during that time. Wah lao eh. How can you attack a kid like that! He's here without his own family, defenceless and innocent. How would you like it if I ask your kids about you raking up huge credit card bills and your wife having to help you clear your debt? Never mind, then the poor boy just answer "don't know, you want to know ask my mother". Wah, and his sis can scold him saying how can he be rude and talk back when his uncle is just asking him something! What the hell lor! And his sis can later go back to complain to their mother that her grandson is rude, talking back to her husband! Wah kao! The pot calling the kettle black!!!!!!

The latest issue with him is regarding the aircon installation at the hometown. It came up because it was so hot there and since only the first room had aircon, everyone thought it will be a good idea to install aircon in all the other rooms and living room. So hubby's bro, Desmond and hubby decided to chip in for this. So out of courtesy his youngest sis asked the second sis if she wants to chip in, since they will also benefit from it. Though everyone expected that her husband will not be in favour of it. Initially she said ok, then the stupid man or his wife la, called daisou and then the parents and make a huge fuss. End up he replied to both hubby's youngest sis and husband that "after much consideration, we are not supportive of this unreasonable, impractical and stubborn plan". Yup, that is what he wrote!! What the hell right!!! Just a simple no we will not chip in will suffice. Do you need to be so rude? Obnoxious idiot stupid man! Then bloody hell you don't use the aircon when you go back!

Honestly, this type of man really gets on my nerves. I can't wait for the day hubby moves out of there and I can stop greeting him jiefu. Hell. Such people do not deserve any respect at all! Certainly not from me! And then when hubby moves out, he dare step on my tail, he better watch out. I will not tolerate any nonsense from him. Mark my words.